How Long Should You Wait To Text A Girl After Meeting Her

How long should you wait to text a girl after meeting her

The best thing to do when you get a girls number  is send her a fun flirty text as soon as you leave her or shortly after. So let’s say you get a girls number at a party, you would type her number in or get her to type in her number on your phone, then immediately send her a fun flirty text.

Step 1) She gives you her number

Step 2) You say “Great I’ll send you a text right now so you can store my number to”

Step 3)You send a text to her saying something like ” The Incredibly charming and  handsome guy that you were chatting with at the party” or ” “Tommy, the sexiest man you spoke to tonight”

something playful like that and a little bit flirty like that. 

The key is don’t tell her what you are going to send her and send it to her shortly after leaving her so that you are fresh in her memory. 

Be forewarned, some girls will give you their number even if they don’t like you, just because they don’t want to be rude when you ask. A good way to figure out it this is the case or not is if she responds back to your original text or if she doesn’t. This is why it is key to wait until you aren’t with her to fire this message off. If she does reply back, then it is game on and its up to you to amplify the attraction and pique her interest from there. 

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75 Free Flirty Texts To Text A Girl

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A good idea is to save the list in your phone somewhere so that you always have them on you. 



It’s important that you understand that there are no magic texts that you can send a girl that is going to make her fall in love with you. If you read my other blog post How you text a girl is way more important than what you text a girl I go into great detail about how when you text a girl, when you stop texting a girl, and how often you text a girl leave way more of an impact on her then the texts that you actually send her. I highly recommend that you read that blog post first before using any of these. You can read it here :

Once you read that you will have a better understanding of how and when you should send these texts. These texts are great for opening text conversations in a fun and flirty way. They set you apart from most guys who open conversations by just saying generic none funny things like  “hey whats up” . 

Go through the list and find some that suit your personality. You are bound to find a few that suit you that you can send that will get her laughing and begin your conversation in a fun and flirty way. 

Let me know which ones work for you and if you have any new ones that you have thought of I would love to hear them. 

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Good luck 

Your Texting Wingman

Tommy Tavares


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